02-13-11 CHOOSING THE BETTER WAY
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These tough words from Jesus come as part of the Sermon on the Mount. Just before these words today, Jesus has told the crowd that he has come not to abolish the law, but to fulfill it. Now this does not mean that he is replacing or belittling or watering down the law. Instead Jesus is embodying the law, putting flesh on the law, and digging underneath the law in order to find God's deeper values and vision which the law points to.
And then Jesus
takes this abstract idea and makes it concrete, giving six examples
of how the word becomes flesh in the realities of our everyday lives.
And as usual Jesus is neither polite nor politic. He takes on murder,
adultery, divorce, lust, legal game playing, and political revenge.
And he tells us that if we cannot embody love and reconciliation in
our personal lives well, then, reconciliation in the world is
doomed.
Today's particular words focus on anger and they are
addressed to the bickering, resentful, bitter parts inside us, as
well as inside those early crowds. As a good Jew, Jesus starts with
the Ten Commandments - Thou shalt not kill - but then he digs even
deeper. He suggests that each one of us is a murderer. Each one of us
is a killer of life and love when we harbor anger and contempt toward
anyone. And he makes it clear that the hard part of reconciliation
must start with us - with our decision to be reconciled to God and to
neighbor. And we are to do this no matter who is at fault.
No
matter who is at fault. Jesus doesn't ask for much, does he?
The
type of anger that Jesus uses when he talks of reconciling with a
friend, means a particular kind of anger. He is not talking about
short bursts of annoyance or frustration. Rather he is talking about
the brooding, pervasive kind of animosity that can eat away at us - a
kind of leprosy of the soul. This anger destroys relationships and
leads to malicious gossip and to the destruction of lives and
reputations. Now just in case we are tempted to excuse ourselves from
such ugly behavior, I'd like to take a moment for us to reflect on
our own lives. Who was the last person you gossiped about or
maligned? How frequently do we label or stereotype others who may
disagree with us? How willing are we to savor animosity and
bitterness toward a friend or family member in order to hold onto our
own hurts?
How do we, as people of God, manage to do harm to
one another? I once tried to trace the origin of a few unkind remarks
that jumped out of my mouth before I thought. Where did they come
from? When I sat down to think about it, I was forced to realize they
were hatched in a secret place where I harbored unvoiced anger about
the person to whom they were spoken. If only I had worked it out with
that person before then, perhaps I could have spared our friendship
and the need for an apology. That day I was motivated by that
resentment to do harm to her. I know that I am not alone in this. The
way of righteousness described in this week's gospel points to
matters of the heart. Jesus knew that most of his audience would
agree that murder and adultery were harmful, but what about angry
thoughts against another person, or lustful thoughts?
There is
a story abut two farmers in Canada. One day the dog of one farmer got
loose and mauled to death the two-year-old child of his neighbor. The
devastated father cut off all relationship with his neighbor, and the
two men lived in cold, defiant enmity for years. Then one day a fire
devastated the property of the dog-owning farmer, destroying his barn
and all his equipment. He was unable to plow and plant, and so his
future appeared doomed. Except that the next morning he woke up and
found all his fields plowed and ready for seed. Upon investigation,
he discovered that his grieving neighbor had done this good deed.
Humbly the rescued farmer approached his neighbor and asked him if he
had plowed his fields - and, if so, why. The answer was clear: "Aye,"
the former enemy said. "I plowed your fields so that God can
live." Hard-core Christian love is not about affection and
friendship. It is about forgiveness and reconciliation. It is about a
law deeper than litigation. It is about the law of grace and the
power of resurrection.
Our Old Testament passage for this
morning spells it out quite clearly. “I have set before you life
and death. Blessings and Curses.” These words seem simplistic in
many ways. Follow God: Be blessed. Follow other gods: Be cursed.
Prosperity is linked with faithfulness, while the failure to thrive
is a clear sign that one has strayed from the right path.
Now that
theological promise may ring hollow to those who have witnessed or
experienced suffering firsthand, and let’s be honest. Who hasn’t
had suffering in their own lives? Indeed the book of Job is a
challenge to this simplistic take on achievement. Do we throw out the
perspective of Deuteronomy then? I think not. Rather, it is important
to understand this text in particular as establishing a basis for
living the "good life" but not answering, or even
attempting to answer, all the questions that arise over the course of
our lives.
That is, this speaks to how we should live, how we
should approach the world, not how we should expect the world to
treat us.
In the first place, Deuteronomy upholds the value of
human life, in particular, the value of success and flourishing
community. These joys of human life are honored as gifts from God and
to be treasured as such. Prosperity can be a good thing, a sign of
hard work and divine blessing. Faithful stewardship of God's gifts
can reap remarkable rewards that should be celebrated, and yet
Deuteronomy provides a much-needed perspective on what it truly means
to live the "good life."
A truly rich and
full life is one that is lived in right relationship with God and
with others. Walking in God's ways and being obedient to God's will
is a solid basis for a life that won't be unmoored by economic
downturns.
Choosing life looks a lot like what Jesus mentions.
It doesn't mean you will become instantly rich. It doesn't mean that
nothing bad will ever happen to you again. What it does mean is that
your life will be a better one. By living in right relationship with
God and others, you are better for it. But it is your choice. It is
always your choice.
The power of choice is one of our greatest
gifts. During the American Revolution Tom Paine showed just how
powerful this gift is when he said, "We have it within our power
to make the world over again." In other words, we have choices
that are so consequential that the world in which we live is
literally determined by the choices we make. And it is true of free
people that we have it within our power to structure the environment,
to establish the context or quality or climate in which we live. And
indeed when we make those choices, we determine something very
important not only for us but for those around us.
I believe
this freedom, this integrity, this characteristic of choice is
God-endowed, that we have it because God gave it to us. We are
unique. We are choice-makers. We have responsibility to make choices.
And it's the ability to make a choice that really gives us a sense of
being different in the world. It gives us the sense of being
meaningful.
But sometimes we get tied up in some pretty small
choices - whether we want chocolate or vanilla, or a red one or a
blue one. And in spite of the fact that while our lives seem plenty
full of these small choices; I believe that we also have major
choices that we must make. And those choices really have an impact
not only on the way we live, but on the way those live who follow us
and live around us. "I call heaven and earth to record this day
against you that I have set before you life and death, blessing and
cursing. Therefore choose life that both you and your descendants may
live."
What you do matters. How you choose to live has an
effect.
Gregory L. Tolle tells a story about someone who
chooses life. “Michael was the kind of guy who had such a positive
outlook that you either loved him or hated him. When someone would
ask him how he was doing, he would reply, "If I were any better,
I would be twins!" He was a natural motivator. If a co-worker
was having a bad day, Michael would encourage them and help them to
see the positive side of the situation.
A friend asked how he
could be so positive all the time. After all, it seemed so unnatural
compared to the rest of the world. Michael replied, "Each
morning I wake up and say to myself, 'You have two choices today. You
can choose to be in a good mood or ... you can choose to be in a bad
mood.' I choose to be in a good mood. Each time something bad
happens, I can choose to be a victim or ... I can choose to learn
from it. I choose to learn from it. Every time someone comes to me
complaining, I can choose to accept their complaining or ... I can
point out the positive side of life. I choose the positive side of
life."
The friend protested that even though it sounded
great in theory it would be hard to live out.
Michael
responded, "Life is all about choices. When you cut away all the
junk, every situation is a choice. You choose how you react to
situations. You choose how people affect your mood. You choose to be
in a good mood or bad mood. The bottom line: It's your choice how you
live your life."
Several years later, Michael was
involved in a serious accident as he fell sixty feet from a
communications tower. As he lay on the ground, the first thing he
thought of was the well-being of his soon-to-be-born daughter. Then,
he remembered that he had two choices: He could choose to live or ...
he could choose to die. He chose to live.
The paramedics
arrived and went to work. They kept telling Michael that he was going
to be fine. But when they wheeled him into the ER, he saw the
expressions on the faces of the doctors and nurses. He began to feel
fear overcoming his body because he could read their eyes: "He's
a dead man." He knew he needed to take action.
A big
burly nurse was shouting questions. She asked Michael if he was
allergic to anything. He replied, "Yes." The doctors and
nurses stopped working as they waited for Michael to fill in the
missing blank of his allergy. He took a deep breath and yelled,
"Gravity." Over their laughter, he said, "I am
choosing to live. Operate on me with that understanding."
After
eighteen hours of surgery and weeks of intensive care, Michael was
released from the hospital with rods placed in his back. Michael
lived, thanks to the skill of his doctors, and also because of his
amazing attitude. When asked about his health, Michael would respond,
"If I were any better, I'd be twins. Want to see my
scars?"”
What you do matters. How you choose to live
has an effect. Michael’s choices and actions affected the people
around him. Your choices and actions affect the people around you.
What choices do you make in your life? Do you choose the way
of life and relationships? Do you follow the deeper side of of the
Law that Jesus teaches? We all have bad days. Days when we don’t
want to choose to be nice to people, when we want to hold on to our
anger. It is far easier to give in to those inclinations. To nurture
our resentments. To lash out at those who hurt us.
But Jesus
calls us to choose something better. To choose the way of
Forgiveness. The way of Love. Jesus calls us to choose a better way.


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