07-11-10 WON'T YOU BE MY NEIGHBOR?
“Won’t You Be My Neighbor?”
This is probably the best known
parable in the Bible. The story of the Good Samaritan. Seeing it listed in the
lectionary for today gave me pause. After all, people have told this story
before. They have talked about the Priest, the Levite and the Samaritan until
they’ve become almost a bad joke. People have argued that this parable has the
same formula as that of a morality play.
And yet, this parable isn’t your typical morality
story, is it? I mean, if this parable really was just another morality tale, I
think the Samaritan would be the guy in the ditch. Then we'd have a classic
"love your enemies" story. You know the rules: help those in need and
get bonus points because it's a Samaritan. But that's not the way Jesus tells it.
In Jesus' version, the Samaritan is the one who notices – who actually sees – this beaten man and by seeing him is moved to pity. The
Samaritan, that is, is the one who recognizes that when it comes to the
question of who is our neighbor, there are no rules. Our neighbor, it turns
out, is anyone in need. Where
does such vision come from? It apparently doesn't come from one's ethnicity, one's religion, one's
training, or one's station in life. How else can we explain that a Samaritan saw this when the priest and Levite
did not? Having the eyes of faith to see all people are children of God and
anyone in need is your neighbor must be a gift of God, it must be a matter of
faith, it must start with seeing, and only then move to doing.
That I think is worth talking about. And to talk
about the Good Samaritan, we must start with the lawyer who brings this parable
about. He asks what was foremost on his mind “What must I do to get to heaven?”
Its a question many of us have asked at one time or another. Jesus turns the
question back upon the lawyer, as he tends to do, and asks what the Law says.
The lawyer gives the textbook answer “You shall love the Lord your God and your
neighbor as yourself.” And Jesus says “See? You know the answer. So do it”
But then the lawyer gets crafty. “Yes, but who is my
neighbor?”
My neighbor.
Now, for the lawyer who tests Jesus, this identity draws lines around people
and protects us from one another, but it also puts some reasonable limits on
the possibly unreasonable demands of the Jewish Law he cares so much about
obeying. Give me some parameters, he says to Jesus, I mean, who would it be
okay not to
love? After all, I'm only human…just give me a list of which people I have to take care of and who's on the outside of that line I need
to draw around my community of care. Yes, yes, of course I know that I need to
love God – that's a no-brainer – remember, I knew the answer to your question
when you asked me what's in the Law (I am a lawyer, after all), but give me a
break, okay? Who all do I need to love just as much as I love myself? Who is
this neighbor whose needs and welfare need to be as important to me as my own?
The question itself implies, of course, that there are people who are not my
neighbor, people whom it's okay not to love.
Now, we can’t expect this question to have a simple answer. Do you think
the Jesus we know from the Gospels and from the past two thousand years of a
church struggling to be faithful and from our own personal and communal
relationship with him, is going to say, "Well, if you can manage to love
your family and friends and maybe throw a coin at a beggar every once in
awhile, that's pretty good. Just be sure to worship regularly at the temple,
obey all the religious laws, and pay your pledge every year. Then you're all
set – or as you put it, you'll inherit eternal life, and you'll go to heaven
when you die, because, after all, you will have earned it."
No. Instead Jesus tells this oh so famous parable,
which never answers the lawyer’s question. Instead, following the parable,
Jesus asks a new question: "Which of these three, do you think, was a
neighbor to the man who fell into the hands of the robbers?" Jesus'
question is challenging, but it is not even in line with the question asked by
the lawyer. The question is no longer who my neighbor is, but who acted as a
neighbor to another in need. Neighbor is no longer about classification, but
about specific action.
According to N.T. Wright, "He wants to know who counts as 'neighbor.' For
him, God is the God of Israel, and neighbors are Jewish neighbors. For Jesus
(and for Luke, who highlights this theme), Israel's God is the God of grace for
the whole world and a neighbor is anybody in need" Jesus shifts the
focus in his parable from the intent of the lawyer's question: the issue is no
longer love of God and love of neighbor, but exclusively the issue of love of
neighbor.
Don’t worry about who your neighbor may be. Worry
instead about whether you are acting as a neighbor; especially when the
likelihood, the strain, even the scandal of being one pushes us far beyond what
seems desirable or imaginable. This, Jesus says, will be the benchmark of
whether we love God and love our neighbor. Fail this? Walk by? Then disdain our
enemy who loves when we don’t? And we expose just how little interest we have
in following Jesus, and in doing what Jesus both does and commands. By
extension, we also make clear what little interest we have in the reality of
eternal life: Gods’ love-suffused Kingdom.
We all know the old joke: A minister had just been preaching about the need for
world peace and humanitarianism. After the service, one member remarked to
another on the lawn outside, "I love mankind. I've got a real heart for
humanity." Then she added: "It's just PEOPLE I can't stand!" We
laugh, but I think we can all relate to this on some level. Yet Jesus’ vision
sees us as we are and as we are not. Love the world, but fail to love as the
neighbor we are meant to be on any given day – not least towards the
marginalized, the inconvenient, the unacceptable – and we fail in what matters
most.
“But,” the more educated among us might protest “The
Priest and the Levite couldn't touch
the man they thought was dead. It was against their laws.” Which is true. They
had legitimate reasons for acting as they did. Any contact with blood or a dead
body would have rendered them unclean according to their purity laws. No one
who was “unclean” could enter the holy places of the temple. So, walking over
and touching this dying or dead man, even just to see if he was alive, was out
of the question. It would have disqualified them from their religious duties.
Believe it or not, we’re not so different from them. Several years ago a group
of researchers conducted an experiment in which seminary students were each
told that they had been selected to help record a talk about the Good
Samaritan. The problem was that the recording was to be done in a
building all the way across campus, and because of a tight schedule they would
have to hurry to get there. On the path to the other building the
researchers had planted an actor playing a sick homeless man slumped in an
alley, coughing and suffering. The excited students each hurried across
campus for their important assignment, and as it turned out, almost none of
them turned out to actually be Good Samaritans. Almost all of them
hurried past the suffering man. One student even stepped over the man’s
body as he rushed across campus to teach about the parable of the Good
Samaritan!
The seminary students, of course, were not bad
people. They were just human. Like the priest and the Levite, they
simply had other priorities that kept them from acting with compassion.
Knowing the right thing to do and actually doing the right thing are two
completely different things. For instance we all value compassion. Yet
how many of us act on that value when we are busy, or distracted, or have other
things to worry about?
That’s what sets the Good Samaritan apart. He had plenty of reasons to do as
the priest and Levite did, passing by on the other side of the road. This
happened in a dangerous area. The dying man could have been a trap used to lure
him into an ambush by thieves. Any number of things could have gotten in the
way of his compassion yet he stopped. He did the unthinkable. He stopped,
putting himself at risk. He touched the man and bandaged his wounds, rendering
himself unclean. He put the beaten man on his own horse, slowing his journey on
the treacherous road. The Samaritan took him to an inn and cared for him,
devoting more of his precious travel time. He paid the innkeeper to take care
of him indefinitely, likely costing him a fortune. Remarkably, none of these
things got in the way of his compassion.
Rebecca J. Kruger Guadino adds another layer to this story: "If, indeed,
the priest and the Levite fear contamination, they do so because of laws that
have as their intent the protection of Israel's holiness before a holy God. But
at what point does the quest for holiness violate God's commands to love? Certainly
all of us in our own communities have regulations intended to safeguard our
community. At what point does our allegiance to these laws jeopardize the laws
the lives and well-being of our fallen neighbors? Or is it possible that loving
God and loving neighbor are at some point incompatible? If the purity laws lie
in the background of this story, then Jesus questions laws that purport to
honor God while dishonoring God's creation."
What is most important to God? When asked this
question, the lawyer didn't respond with the laws of ritual cleanliness. He
answered “To love the Lord your God with all your heart and to love your
neighbor as yourself.” That takes precedence over everything else, even the
other laws. We follow the law, but this parable is a clear case where you can't
follow the Law and this commandment. This commandment is what matters.
Mr. Rogers who taught many of us growing up, talked about neighbors a lot. He
taught children how to be neighbors to each other, how to care and how to listen.
Mr. Rogers once said: “The more I think about it, the more I wonder if God and
neighbor are somehow One. ‘Loving God, Loving neighbor’-the same thing? For me,
coming to recognize that God loves every neighbor is the ultimate
appreciation!” That is what matters beyond the laws: loving God and neighbor.
I want to take a moment here to look at the victim on the road. Does he seem
familiar to you? He does to me. We know that the beaten man comes from a very
high place, Jerusalem, to a very low place, the bottom of the road from the
hill. He’s risking suffering and death to get there,going alone on a very
dangerous road, and he’s eventually stripped, beaten, and left dying. His
suffering is even ignored by the religious leaders of the day. I don't know about
you, but I see Christ in him.
If you think about it, he is the Christ-figure of the story. For ages
Christians have seen Christ in the compassionate self-sacrifice of the Good
Samaritan, but shouldn’t we see Christ in the one suffering as well? Jesus did
teach that whatsoever we do to the least of these, we do to Jesus himself. Are
we not called to recognize the face of Christ in the poor, the needy, the
outcast, and the lowly? We may not be able to force ourselves to act with
compassion, but we can at the very least open ourselves up to the possibility
that Christ is in every lowly, needy, or suffering person we meet. We can seek
to put ourselves in contact with more and more people who are living in need.
We can be friends to those in low places. This has been the calling of the
Church from the very beginning.
We are called to love our neighbors. To be neighbors
in a world that turns away. In a world full of excuses about why we can't help,
we are called to care. We are called to see the neighbors suffering and to do
something about it. This is not an easy task, at all, but one we must work
towards. It is to that height that Christ calls us. So in the words of Mr.
Rogers: “In all that you do in your life, I wish you the strength and the grace
to make those choices which will allow you and your neighbor to become the best
of whoever you are.”
Rev. Cara Gee
July 11th, 2010


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